Yesterday I was fine, had lovely day with dh enjoying our last bit of time together.
Today I am a loony nightmare, tears started for no reason in middle of town centre and there has been pretty much no let up since.
Had huge argument with dh. He foolishly suggested that I was wrong inviting my mum dad, grandma and sister to the hospital together as he thinks its too many people. I was really suprised he chose today of all days to come out with this gem considering this is first grandchild, niece and great grandchild and I don't see enough of them anyway , and then when I objected he said "wellll...I'm just SAYING. I'm entitled to my opinion. You need to accept that other people have different opinions from you"
I had a masssive meltdown, which led to him going "oh for gods sake, I'm cooking you a lovely dinner arent I, you would think I'm th worst husband ever" etc etc poor me talk. And then he kept on with this until I screamed at him to shut up.
Why today did he do that? When I am being so feeble and tearful and he might have known that is the reaction he would have got?
And more to the point - WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH ME????
yes it is the norm as youre nervous and ya hormones is all over the place plus youre *fed up* waiting around as everything is on hold atm. Are you suggesting for the family to come on the first night? as i had my Dps mum and 2 sisters on the first night (my mum was my birth partner and also my dp). i couldnt speak to Dps family as i was ssooo knackered and wanted sleep !!
i was like that when i went overdue! at one point i even told my dp i didnt want my baby i didnt love it or him (i had tried 18months to concieve) so not true i picked an argument at everything got myself so upset because i was anxious about giving birth being a mother, it is hormones and lack of sleep etc
And as for all your family i was only allowed two ppl at the birth my sister had to wait in the waiting room so check at your hospital!
good luck hoping your bundle here soon as the days past your edd drag and are so long
You are just about to have a baby!! It is normal to feel emotional.
I hope you have your baby soon, your partner just wants what's best for you. He is probably worried that too many visitors will be too much for you.