Am hoping someone will have some sensible advice...
I'm 42, with two children already ( 9 and 7). I was just starting to feel like I was moving on career wise and enjoying life with slightly more independent children when I've found out I'm 6 weeks pregnant. I don't know whether to keep the baby or not. My husband is definitely on the side of having an abortion but I know that he would support whatever I decide to do. That's the problem - I don't know. I wake up some mornings with excitement, some with a sense of dread. I have all the normal 6 week symptoms so it really feels like I'm pregnant - if that doesn't sound stupid - and I'm not sure I can go through with an abortion. Having looked up what happens, it terrifies me. I'm booked in for the consultation tomorrow and dreading it. I'm also worried, though, that in carrying on with the baby I'm going to ruin our happy family (birth defects, my health, lack of finances etc). I can't tell people in real life because I don't want to be judged. I feel so stupid and ashamed to have got myself in this mess.
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edlet · 10/07/2019 21:48
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