Morning.
I’d be interested to see how other couples worked this out. I know I’m in a decent position financially, so please don’t think I am thinking I’m hard done by - I’m just after advice.
I currently do well with my salary, and I’m in the process of reviewing my finances in light of moving onto SMP around next Feb (due in Nov). I don’t have savings and I’m paying off credit card debt for the baby’s arrival and still live in my overdraft. I should have wised up about that kind of thing a while ago.
Me and my husband keep our finances separate, which we’ve always been happy with. Household costs are split evenly in terms of which bills we pay for etc. It’s always worked for us. We are comfortable, but that will obviously change for me soon.
Anyway, I’d like to hear how others got on with moving from being financially independent to relying on DPs. I don’t want to feel like I need to ask for money or that I am charity. I’m a bit stubborn with this, but I’ll feel so small taking money from my DP - partly as I have worked so hard to get this decent salary.....even though I know we’re both in this together. It’ll feel like the old “alright sweetheart, go buy yourself something” type of situation to me.
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Chester1980 · 23/06/2018 11:09
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