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On the verge of a breakdown

(13 Posts)
Katiekiara Sat 24-Feb-18 15:39:23

I had hcg levels done on Thursday, they were 187, today I had them done again, 197.
Is there any hope for this pregnancy, is there anything I can do? I’ve had 3 miscarriages beforesad Another one will honestly break my heart

QueenAravisOfArchenland Sat 24-Feb-18 17:45:11

I'm afraid not. A pregnancy is ultimately either viable or not and if it is already failing nothing can be done.

I'm very sorry. Are you having treatment for recurrent miscarriage?

FancyNewBeesly Sat 24-Feb-18 17:47:52

How far along are you?

MagicalCreatures Sat 24-Feb-18 17:48:52

How far apart were the blood tests. Unfortunately though I had the same thing recently where my HCG was rising very slowly just like yours and it ended in miscarriage.
I spent hours searching for positive stories relating to this and didn’t find anything x

Katiekiara Sat 24-Feb-18 18:31:06

I would be about 4-5 weeks alongsad I already have appointment with Tommy’s Miscarrage but it is in April sad I’m devastated, have to go back Monday for further blood tests to see if my levels increasing, another option they think could be ectopic sad

MagicalCreatures Sat 24-Feb-18 19:00:23

I know darling. And for you to have already been through it a couple of times. It must be heartbreaking.
Ectopic is another problem with slow rising levels but fingers crossed it isn’t that. They said the same to me but obviously mine wasnt that.
Have they booked you a scan x

MagicalCreatures Mon 26-Feb-18 23:16:44

How are you feeling @Katiekiara
Any updates x

Baby2018 Tue 27-Feb-18 07:47:57

I just wanted to say I'm really sorry and I hope you're getting good support.

Katiekiara Tue 27-Feb-18 16:37:25

Hey I’ve had scans bloods done etc, they can’t find my pregnancy. It’s not where it’s meant to be nor is it in my tubes, they don’t know. Nurse gave me some time to think about either getting injection to end it or let it pass naturally when my body recognises pregnancy is failing

Katiekiara Tue 27-Feb-18 16:38:07

@magicalcreatures Thankyou for checking up flowers

Kittypillar Tue 27-Feb-18 16:40:14

Really sorry to read this sad flowers hope you're getting lots of support. Take care of yourself.

Katiekiara Tue 27-Feb-18 16:55:41

Thankyou for your support everyone, I’ve honestly never felt so alone. I cried myself to sleep last night, been arguing with boyfriend, haven’t been to work, just feel so lonely. My friends all say the wrong things, just sitting here in bed staring out the window wondering why this keeps happening to me, just feeling sorry for myself I suppose

MagicalCreatures Thu 01-Mar-18 17:04:33

I’m so sorry @Katiekiara
Been thinking of you the last couple of days. People never seem to say the right things but they don’t mean any harm. If they haven’t gone through it they just don’t understand.
One of the worst things people said to me when I fell pregnant (my first month trying) and then discovered I was going to have a miscarriage was ‘ oh well, it was your first month trying, you can try again, it doesn’t matter’

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