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Too afraid to have a baby

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Naomi55 Tue 13-Feb-18 17:54:33

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DriggleDraggle Tue 13-Feb-18 17:55:52

are you currently pregnant?

i only ask cos what i would reply would be different if you were or werent.

Littlemisssugarplum88 Tue 13-Feb-18 17:58:48

Are you ready to have a baby?! Or are you just thinking ahead?!
I think the unknown is terrifying for everyone xx

Passmethecakeplease Tue 13-Feb-18 19:00:00

The OP has just started another thread almost immediately after this one asking if it's safe to straighten hair in pregnancy.

Just saying.....

Littlemisssugarplum88 Tue 13-Feb-18 19:13:33

Oh :/ That's strange! Xx

cherryontopp Tue 13-Feb-18 19:26:43

Straightening hair grinthat made me giggle.

If this is a serious thread, then my answer is, dont think about it. Once its in there, theres nothing you can do. You could also have a c-section if u really didnt want to give birth.

Yogagirl123 Tue 13-Feb-18 19:39:08

Do you really want a baby? Based on my experience, when you truly do, you will go through anything to have your baby.

Birth is unpredictable of course, but it’s not unbearable. If it was no mother would ever have more than one!

Where do you think your fear has come from?

I have had two DS’ both easy pregnancies and natural births without pain relief. I would do it again in a heartbeat, worth every second of labour.

DreamsTonite Tue 13-Feb-18 21:27:09

You either want a baby or you don’t. If you want a baby and/or are pregnant you have to give birth.

Casmama Tue 13-Feb-18 21:29:36

If you are pregnant then I would strongly advise you do some hypnobiryhkbg classes. Not cheap but I think that would do a lot for your confidence.

Casmama Tue 13-Feb-18 21:29:58

Hypnobirthing!

awankstainonhumanity Tue 13-Feb-18 22:14:48

Giving birth is fucking awful. I'd never ever do it again.

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