I'm 8 weeks pregnant, we lost our first baby in August at 2 1/2 months old. We had great support from my family and all our friends but my dh s family have been awful, said hurtful things and treated our baby in a dangerous way in the hospital before he died.
We decided not to tell his family, the relationship is strained anyway and I haven't seen them for a few months and don't plan to.
We've decided their input will be minimal. Which is going to go down badly. They are very over bearing, demanding people who very rarely think about other people's feelings.
Do we tell them from the off that they won't be having our baby in the way they will be thinking (ie holidays, days out, etc)
Or do we just let them carry on with their plans and not say anything.
Ps before anyone jumps on me.... this is the granny that walked into icu, ignored a nurse and took baby out of his incubator when he was on minimal handling.... legitimately bat shit!
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user1485778793 · 06/12/2017 18:08
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