I'm currently 9 weeks pregnant with our first baby. We live abroad and aren't seeing my parents until Christmas when I'll be around 16 weeks. Our inlaws are visiting this week and we've told them the news as I've been suffering from HG and have been quite sick and also I cannot drink and, as this was our chance to tell them in person (we won't see them at Christmas). A
My FIL has said he thinks my mum will be very hurt that she wasn't told at the same time and that it's not a good idea to wait until Christmas.
I don't want to hurt anyone. Key background is that we have had two miscarriages already this year and so don't want to share news in first trimester when we don't have to, and also would really like to share happy news in person at Christmas - I think this will be nicer for my parents. My mother is also a bit of a gossip and will tell everyone and probably try and organize some sort of surprise baby shower if given too much notice.
I'm probably overthinking it all - but is it awful to wait/ do you think it will cause issues or is it nicer to do it in person? Thanks
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Telling one set of parents before the other
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Snipples · 05/11/2017 06:36
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