Okay, so here's the basic details. I'm 25, in a three-year relationship with the love of my life, and I work full-time. Six months ago I moved back to my parent's house in order to save for the deposit of my own house, and it's going well. I've also just finished writing a book, and fingers crossed, it's looking promising that it should be published within the next six months. I'm happy, and I feel that I'm doing well.
Similarly, I'm currently 14 weeks pregnant and I'm ecstatic! My partner and I saw our baby for the first time a couple of days ago and it was magical. However, I'm not currently able to share this happy with news with anyone else, which is sad.
The issue: my parents - in particular, my mother. She jeers at others my age who have children, and she'd be disappointed to learn of my own pregnancy. In fact, she'd be nothing short of horrified.
As I'm currently still living with her she's become suspicious. She's noticed that I'm not drinking, and that I've began to cook more nutritious meals for myself. I'm also beginning to show, and there's only so many baggy jumpers that I can wear before it becomes obvious. Last night she sat me down and made me promise that I'm not pregnant "because that would be terrible" apparently. I denied it, and ended up crying myself to sleep, feeling terrible.
My partner and I have a substantial amount of savings between us, and our original plan was to find somewhere for us both as I hit my third trimester. That gives me a bit more time to save, plan, etc. Financially, we'll be fine. Emotionally, we'll be fine. My mother however, is another matter entirely, and my father will mimic her behaviours.
I'm petrified. Has anyone else ever experienced something similar to this? If so, how did you cope?
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My parents will be dissapointed when I reveal my pregnancy.
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Daisy92 · 24/10/2017 10:14
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