So was ttc for around 2yrs. Various issues both parties. Was told it was very likely need Ivf. But try clomid first.
Happened 1st month! So obviously over the moon. But this is where it starts..
So I'd resigned to the fact that it prob just wouldn't happen.. Dp said I was silly to be so pessimistic.
So I see the body changing
I have brought 90% of the stuff needed
Made savings for buying for when born for pink or blue stuff.
I talk about when the baby comes
I feel the movement
I have organised in my head the mat leave etc
However
I can't seem to actually 'get that this is really happening emotionally' physically I do as in the being organised, mentally as I know it's there. I've had the 12&20 week scan. Pkus a private one. And a 4d booked.. I see it on the screen. But I till can't believe it in my heart
It's worrying me a fair bit for some reason.. A colleague said maybe if we found d out the sex I would bond better. But we both agreed not to which I am happy about
Sorry for rambling lol.. But I feel confused
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Would you say this is a bonding issue.? Anyone the same
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CinnamonAndSpice · 21/10/2017 23:37
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