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Iv had two children and I'm currently handing my 3rd, I never found out what I was having with my first two but I want to no This time Round, just wondering will they tell you or do you have to pay for them to tell you? X
Most hospitals will tell you if you want to know and there should not be a charge. Odd that a trust has a policy of not telling you. Is there a particular problem in the area of people who have a cultural gender bias on babies and therefore increased risk of gender based abortions? seems bizarre otherwise.
if you keep an eye out you can see if its a boy anyway - my husband saw it all before the sonographer told us!
Our trust also has a policy of not telling, the lady who did my 20 week scan was very clear that it’s a medical scan, and that there were other much more important things they needed to examine to ensure the baby’s health. If we’d wanted to know we would have had to pay £35 and book an additional scan. We chose not to know anyway, but I got the impression that the trust generally was trying to get away from the idea that the 20 week scan was for finding out the sex, and focus more on the stuff it does actually measure.
Here, they tell you if you want to know and they can be relatively certain about what they're seeing. They won't if they can't be certain and they won't re-scan you if they can't get a good shot. The only thing I paid for were the scan pictures.
