Hi everyone.. this may be long winded but looking for some advise & outsiders opinion ..
Im 3 months pregnant with 3rd baby and been with partner over a year so it's our 1st together.
I was on the pill do wasn't planned
From day one my partner has told me to have an abortion..
Im now 3 months pregnant.
He seems to want me but not our baby. He still stays at my house every night and has a relationship with me but doesn't mention the baby. When I try & talk about it or the midwife etc hes not interested. He wont even talk about abortions. Just anything baby he says "you know what I feel"
I'm really struggling as it's real to me. I feel very pregnant im going to appointments alone.. I havnt told any of my family im pregnabt because I feel I can't. I'm hiding my belly too. I love my partner I'd move the earth for him and there's nothing that could come our way that would make me make him feel alone.. but he's doing this to me.
He stays at my house every night after work but he's never let me meet his family although iv met his children. Only my best friend knows about my pregnancy & she's very supportive
I'm independant & strong but when im not feeling too well or I have a cry I want someone to share it with but I havnt got that in my partner. He said one day we can have a baby maybe next year but he's not ready yet. ????
I feel if he seriously loved and wanted me he'd find a way.
My question is.. do I stay with him & be pregnant alone and he'll probably start realising reality the further gone i get or do I just leave him & focus on my pregnancy
I don't really want an abortion iv bought 2 children up alone and iv done it well iv got a big enough house etc... it just hurts because I wish he was sharing it with me but he's making me feel isolated & alone
Thanks in advance ladies sorry if I bored you xxx
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Partner doesn't want our baby:(
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lydsim25 · 18/10/2017 09:53
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