My oh has been brilliant. He takes washing out, carries loads of things for me. He does tea, hoovers, sometimes food shopping. He deals with dc when I'm in pain or tired. I have spd which hadn't helped.
I've been horribly moody and put on weight and I'm out sure how he's still with me at times. I really want to make him feel special still, especially at Christmas. So my thinking cap is on.
Mine is also wonderful - puts up with my moaning, does the housework including litter tray, is paying off a humungous loan I took out a year ago so we can be better off when baby comes and tells me I'm amazing for going through all of this pregnancy lark. He can be a dick sometimes too but not often!