DH is 25 now, I myself 19.
I certainly don't want to pop out any more for a good 6/7 years.
I know I sound ridiculous, how could I possibly know for sure before even having DS? but I've suffered terribly with HG sickness throughout and my autoimmunity disease hasn't taken kindly to me being pregnant.
What's more, I'm being monitored every 48 for reduced/no movement and DS is being delivered at 37 weeks because of this.
I just can't bloody go through the hassle anymore.
Would it be better to have another DC in say 3 years instead of my planned 6/7?
DH doesn't want to have another one once he reaches 30. 30 still sounds so young to me but apparently it isn't to him.
In all honesty, I'm very comfortable sticking to one DC but he'd like one more and I'm comfortable to compromise.
I'm still so young, I don't want two children before I'm even 25 I want a healthy mixture of my career and family.
Children are bloody hard work. But is it really fair to leave DS as an only child?
I have PCOS and Endometriosis too, which may make TTC again quite a struggle. Maybe I won't even be able to once I hit 24+.
Sorry, this thread is probably deemed quite ridiculous since DS isn't here yet. I just wanted to get what I have to say out in the open, to someone I don't know personally.
My specialist obstetrician says she doesn't recommend 'just the one' and only children are lonely, apparently.
Perhaps DH will run to get the snip once he realises how dreadfully tired DS makes him?
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DH doesn't want any more babies once he's over 30
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BlueButTrue · 12/10/2017 11:12
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