I'm currently 18 weeks pregnant with my second baby and having my 20 week scan in 2 weeks time. Me and my oh are really stuck on whether to find out or not. My oh has a dd from a previous relationship and we have a dd together. We didn't find out with our dd and it was amazing having that moment at the birth and then telling our family and friends. I'm just not sure if this time round it would be best to find out so we can get ourselves organised with already having children. Anyone done both and preferred one to the other? Or has anyone just some experience with doing either way? X
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