I'm worried that I'll develop pre eclampsia like last time and have the same horrific first days being passed from pillar to post in the hospital, or be hospitalised for even longer than that two horrific weeks
Pre-eclampsia (had it first time round), birth defects or stillbirth.
I do worry about post-natal depression too, looking back at DD's early days I realise I did have it mildly. I remember feeling so insanely anxious and paranoid and yet, strangely detached from everything in the world. It cleared quickly but some stressful family circumstances make me worry I will be at risk.
I'm about 99% convinced that I'll get to my dating scan on the 4th of may to be told I've had a mmc. I've had three dreams that this has happened and my sickness has seemed to have stepped up a notch over the last few days. When I've googled this there were a couple of posts about this happening just before women found out about their mmc. My husband is completely against a second private scan as he didn't like the feel of the place we went to at 6 weeks (it did seem a bit false, I can't explain, but I do see where he's coming from). But I'm freaking out. I love mn and it's really helpful but I think, in my case, it is possible to be too informed! I'd never even heard of mmc until this time around!
Currently 16 weeks and worried about them picking something up on 20 week scan. Also worried about the effect having another child is going to have on my first born...she has been acting odd since she found out about the baby. I sailed through my first pregnancy without a care in the world but this time I just seem so much more aware and anxious of the things that can go wrong!