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Staceywilliams24 · 23/04/2017 01:41

Hi I did a post last week about the trouble I been having. Long story and can't really type that good so please bare with me and I can't spell either anyway I found out on 13th April 2017 that am pregnant I did 4 normal test come up faint line. I then did 4 clear blue digital test shows pregnant 1/2 weeks. I then been to walking care centre nurse did a test and book me in for early pregnancy scan as I was unsure with my dates and pervious miscarriage's I had in the past and because I had little pain in my belly. On 17th April I went to early pregnancy unit they told me not to drink water and to empty my bladder which I don't understand. The nurse told me am 7weeks I told her she wrong as am only to early anyway other nurse did a normal scan and internal scan which she hurt me by moving to much she said there is a tiny sac but no baby she was so rude and negative told me that I have either already lost or I be having miscarriage I told her no as I haven't bleed. I went to see other nurse she said it could be very early pregnancy and to come back in 2 weeks for other scan. She did bloods test which she hadn't had a clue how to take bloods anyway I rang them and the woman on phone told me it is low for being 7weeks ( which I told her am not 7 weeks am 2 weeks pregnant ) but said there is still pregnancy in my hcg bloods and said to come back on Wednesday to repeat it see if it goes double or not on go pregnancy. On 19th I went back to repeat my bloods seen different nurse and she was horrible she told me get ready to bad news she took my bloods again I rang them she said my hcg gone down and told me not to bother for a scan just to come back for more bloods I then told her to forget I get second option as you did same thing with my 6 year old son. I had low hcg with him and told me I will end up miscarriage but I didn't. That later on on that day I spoke to different hospital I spoke to nurse in early pregnancy unit told her what been said and she told me that they not meant to say that to me at all and said if I miscarriage I won't have a sac there and told me I am very early and it will not show baby on scan only small sac and hcg it is not very low in danger zone but is low but she said not to worry as I am early . I haven't spot or even bleed at all. All I got is sore boobs and discharge she told me to try to relax and see me on 28th . On 18th April I spoke to male and female doctor they have said the same what other hospital said and told me not to worry if I bleed go to a+e. I am keep going to let to check down there to see if am bleeding but only white discharge yes am over paranoid and worrying to much I can't help it as I suffer gad I do have cramp pain in my belly but that cause my ibs playing up as am stress and I feel like my period going to come for days like am waiting but that cause baby getting ready or in it place . Has anyone had same problem

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RedastheRose · 23/04/2017 01:52

I can't really help but didn't want to leave without replying. Easier said than done but try and relax. There is nothing you can do if you aren't pregnant or have already miscarried but if your are still pregnant worrying is only going to do you harm. Try and be philosophical and do some meditation breathing exercises and sleep and relax as much as possible.