Hi
I'm 32 weeks so have got a little while yet before I need to figure this out, but would welcome other people's stories of how they approached the situation.
Lately I've been thinking about the days/week following the birth. I really like the idea of closing the curtains, locking the front door and snuggling up in a cosy little cocoon with my husband and new baby. I figure that as well as it being a special time that we want to enjoy uninterrupted, I'll also be trying to master breastfeeding and recovering from the birth, so probably won't feel like entertaining guests.
Don't get me wrong it'll be lovely to have people visit, it's just ideally I'd like to have several days, maybe even a week, before they start coming round. This would apply to immediate family too.
A couple of family members have recently mentioned visiting after the baby is born, so I'm thinking if we're going ahead with this plan then I should forewarn people. But has anyone else tried this, and was it successful? I don't want to offend anyone or hurt their feelings, but I'm normally a bit of a pushover and I think if I caved in on this occasion I may end up regretting it, as I can't ever get those first few days back.
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sunnyfields25 · 16/04/2017 19:30
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