So when I got pregnant with dd me and (now) DH hadn't been together long and when we told his parents they went totally apesh*t at us, I won't go into details but we were both taken off into separate rooms and basically screamed and cried at and begged for abortions and called all the names under the sun!
Anyway fast forward 4+ years and they now love dd, very much so, I know really they'll be pleased we are having another but this irrational part of me is scared and it's already consuming my pregnancy (last pregnancy was very much about them once they got over the initial shock and it really affected me as a first time mum).
I promised myself this pregnancy would be different, that I'd be more assertive and it was about me, DH, dd and our baby but I can't help but get a knot in my tummy when I think about re-living those moments where dd was very much snatched from my arms as soon as I walked in, whilst she screamed and screamed and they refused to give her back, pushed into having her overnight at 5 months old and tears turned on if ever told no. all those things that when you have a newborn set all those deep rooted natural alarm bells off. I'm probably rambling; but would in be totally out of order to not tell anyone until after our scan 12 weeks, so I can at least enjoy a few months of peace ?
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Only just found out I'm pregnant with #2 and feeling anxious about telling family!
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Chamonix1 · 29/03/2017 07:22
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