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Please some advice needed...

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user1489343787 Sun 12-Mar-17 18:48:21

Hi new 2 mums net and call me silly asking a bunch of random people about a big life choice but it's worked for otherssmile

I currently have a 3 year old with a previous partner I was with for 6 years. I have been in a new relationship for 9 months and just found out I am 4 weeks pregnant (accident was on the pill).

Now my problem is since finding out I am pregnant I am really missing my daughters dad and he harassed me all the time to be with him again and to leave my current partner. I don't no why I feel like this but I'm scared and I'm not sure what to do. I don't no whether I'm scared to tell him I'm pregnant or what but he does no about my new partner.

We never really stopped talking as he still sees his daughter and we talk like normal about her there is no hate.

My new partner is very happy about pregnancy but says he will support me whatever my decision.. (terminate or keep)
Iv never believed in abortions but my emotions are very high and I'm feeling all over the place I can't stop crying I really don't no what to do.

ColourfulOrangex Sun 12-Mar-17 19:52:16

Not really sure what you should do and I think only you can make that decision but looking back was there a main reason for your split with your daughters dad? Has that reason changed?

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