My OH is adamant that he doesn't want anyone to know until 12 weeks minimum, which I get, but my mum is a midwife. As things stand at the moment, I've no idea how pregnant I am because of irregular cycles and I know my mum could get me a scan straight away. In a moment of weakness, I told my mum and she indeed is arranging me a scan and it's definitely put my mind at ease a little. However, my OH is fuming. I feel so guilty for letting it slip and feel terrible that I've disappointed him, but he can't see it from my side at all, that it's important I have someone to speak to and my mum was the natural place I turned to. I guess I'm just looking for some thoughts on this. How were your OH's with telling others? How should I tackle the now very frosty relationship I've created with my DP?!
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