I found out yesterday that I am pregnant and I'm absolutely bricking it.
I already have 3 children but in 2014 I had social services involvement due to my violent partner and my appalling mental state.
In September 2014 I was given a choice either I left my partner and continued to work with social services or my children could go live with their paternal grandparents and they would apply for residency and guardianship orders or social services would start the process to have my children removed from my care.
I agreed for my children to go live with their grandparents. (Please don't judge me for not leaving my partner it was a very controlling, violent relationship and I was terrified of him also I have emotionally unstable personality disorder and struggle with relationships with family, friends, partners etc)
I have regular contact with my children, initially I saw them weekly but since all 3 of them started school I now see them fortnightly. This isn't through social services this is arranged between me and their nana.
I finally separated from my ex partner in June last year, I left our shared home and moved in with friends.
In September last year I agreed to go on a date with someone I had been friends with for a couple of years and we have been together since.
I have the mirena coil but the hormones in it have expired before it was due to be out (it was due out in July this year) and I am now pregnant.
I absolutely terrified of what is going to happen and how i am going to tell people and I just don't know what to do.
If anyone at all has any similar experience or any advice at all I would love to hear it because I just don't know what's going to happen and I'm so scared and worried
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Just found out I'm pregnant. Terrified
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Taylorsej17 · 17/02/2017 23:18
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