Mother-in-law is super excited for her first grandchild and eager to help. She isn't working at the moment so is ready to be all hands on. The other day she asked if we have a bed in our spare room so she can stay over to help after baby is born.
I am really thankful to have this level of help, especially being a FTM. But I'm worried it's going to cause issues (over things like upbringing, as we are different cultures) and I don't want to ruin our positive relationship.
I should also mention that I'm the type of person who will find it really irritating if someone is too much in my personal space. Hence why I am thinking in advance about disagreements and the affect on our relationship.
Has anyone else experienced in laws staying over? What was it like?
Could you give me advice on what she could do to help so she isn't breathing down my neck?
Thanks.
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Grandma's involvement -advice please
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NewMum17 · 27/01/2017 09:03
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