I feel so alone and unsupported. I'm in my third trimester of pregnancy with my first and everything has been absolutely fine. The last few weeks I have been buying all the essentials and researching and researching what we need and what happens when giving birth. But without the internet I would know hardly anything. They say when you are pregnant everyone around you wants to give you advice but no one is giving me any advice. My mum sits in her chair all day everyday and can't be bothered to do anything for herself let alone anyone else. I asked her if she is ready to be a grandparent and the response was, not really. My parents house is a mess and so dirty and they have not even started thinking about having a baby visiting. My sister doesn't try and exist in my life. I've spoken to her three times during pregnancy. The first was to tell her the happy news, and about the 12 weeks scan. I was so happy and the response I got was so flat. I then saw her at my parents around her birthday. I gave her a gift but never got a birthday gift from her. Then at Christmas at my parents I saw her but there was no interest from her.
I have a small group of friends but they are so far off thinking about having babies themselves that I cannot even begin to talk about anything without feeling like a zoo exhibit.
My DH is wonderful though, so I should not feel sorry for myself. He is so supportive. Everything has been going well. But I just lack any female companionship or family support and feel really lonely. What am I going to do once our baby is born and my DH is back at work if I already feel this way?? Is this our culture for women to go through pregnancy alone or is this just me?
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Feel so alone even though my partner is wonderful
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LadyDawn · 15/01/2017 12:31
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