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My boyfriend wants me to have an elective c section

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061678719x Sat 31-Dec-16 20:59:20

My boyfriend wants me to opt for a c section because his small mind thinks that my down stairs will never go back to normal. Opinions on this?

Wonderflonium Sat 31-Dec-16 21:00:37

Dump him and don't look back. Christ. Is that all you are to him? A "down stairs" to put his dick into?

WaitroseCoffeeCostaCup Sat 31-Dec-16 21:01:40

Yeah, don't let him down there ever again.

Fairylea Sat 31-Dec-16 21:01:43

biscuit he's an arse!

WheresTheEvidence Sat 31-Dec-16 21:01:46

I'd get rid

Blackbird82 Sat 31-Dec-16 21:01:58

Was he being serious?

RacoonBandit Sat 31-Dec-16 21:02:20

Show him the door.

He is an arsehole.

sweetkitty Sat 31-Dec-16 21:02:22

Oh dear

TheGruffaloMother Sat 31-Dec-16 21:02:24

Why do you need opinions? Surely yours is quite strong?

DrinkFeckArseGirls Sat 31-Dec-16 21:02:32

Tell himto FO. Seriously. Do what you think it's best. Plus good luck telling your doc you want a c-section for this reason.

WellErrr Sat 31-Dec-16 21:02:46

Tell him to fuck right off?

talksensetome Sat 31-Dec-16 21:03:20

Wow how pathetic, him not you . Dump him and then your 'downstairs' is not his concern.

JumpingJellybeanz Sat 31-Dec-16 21:03:24


ricepolo Sat 31-Dec-16 21:04:03

Presumably he also doesn't want you to BF because it'll make your boobs all 'saggy'?? Thought so.

Good to see he's got the best interests of you and your unborn child at heart...hmm

SteppingOnToes Sat 31-Dec-16 21:04:27

Genuinely curious - does it go back to normal?

Cynara Sat 31-Dec-16 21:05:06

Oh good grief. What an utter bastard. Tell him you'll have a c section when he books himself in for a penis enlargement. Seriously, a man who wants you to go through unnecessary major abdominal surgery in the interests of his future sexual satisfaction is not worth your time. Get rid, you deserve far better.

Whatsername17 Sat 31-Dec-16 21:05:24

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RacoonBandit Sat 31-Dec-16 21:05:25

No it stays the same size as the babies head and you whistle in the wind grin

SillyBub Sat 31-Dec-16 21:06:16

Here, it's the very last one from the Christmas selection box --> fbiscuit

Scabetty Sat 31-Dec-16 21:06:30

Wankstain - reduce him to it.

Ilovecaindingle Sat 31-Dec-16 21:06:46

Only if he is in the next cubicle having a penile expansion..... grin

ricepolo Sat 31-Dec-16 21:07:09

Yep-I've had three and the last two just fell out when I coughed discreetly....

061678719x Sat 31-Dec-16 21:07:26

My opinion is that he's being absolutely disgusting. But then I thought - is it just me? Does he have a point? I just don't understand how someone can be so inconsiderate. A c section is not the safest option for me and my baby..there's just no telling him?

DoomGloomAndKaboom Sat 31-Dec-16 21:08:42

He wants you to have major abdominal surgery for (in his tiny mind) his own sexual gain?

WellErrr Sat 31-Dec-16 21:09:10

Don't think so, Whats.

Doesn't work like that anyway OP, unless your boyfriend has ££££ to finance your hypothetical section. You don't get to rock up to the NHS and request a section because your boyfriend wants one.

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