Hi, after 7 miscarriages (furthest being 11 weeks) I'm finally 19 weeks pregnant but all of my symptoms have disappeared and I have no signs of showing. I'm still wearing my normal clothes too. I did hope that I'd be able to feel the baby move this week but nothing as yet. Can't help but worry 😞
It might be that your placenta is at the front of your tummy - this can shield the feel of any movements. I had this with my first and I didn't feel him move until about 22 weeks!
As for showing it can depend on how big/small you are. Symptoms tend to drop off post 12 weeks so again not something to worry about.
When is your next midwife appointment? I assume you are having extra monitoring because of your risk of miscarriage? If you are worrying then speak to your early pregnancy unit at the hospital. They will often check for heartbeat - make sure they are aware of your history re miscarriages. They are very supportive (well mine was).
As long as the midwife is happy with growth etc really don't worry I hardly showed at all with my first and then just got utterly massive in the last two months With my second I remember people being surprised I'd had a baby as they hadn't noticed and I never needed maternity clothes. With my third I was like a bloody elephant. I am tall and had normal sized babies Quite normal not to feel movement until further along.
Please don't worry about movement. It comes later with baby number one! I was making my self sick with panic and stress because I couldn't feel the baby but then it turned out what I thought was gas was the baby's tiny movements . Even at 22 weeks I feel her more laying down then I do during the day.
I am exactly the same as you! I'm really sorry to hear about your losses. My friends and family have all told me this is normal. Some didn't feel movement until 24 weeks with their first baby and didn't show till 22 weeks (small dress size).
I'm 18 weeks and not showing or feeling kicks. Instead of worrying I am now enjoying still wearing my normal clothes and not being kept awake at night by a gymnast baby.
Sorry to hear of your losses Dd1 was 8lb and born at 39+4 you couldn't tell I was pregnant as I had no bump at all,a relative saw me 2 days before she was born and didn't notice. Didn't start feeling her moved till about 22 weeks either. I know its hard but do try not to worry
Thank you all so much for your kind words and encouragement. It's good to know that how I'm feeling is 'normal' I have my 20 week scan in a week so hopefully, that'll ease my worries too. Thank you again, much love xxxx
I did an exercise class wearing tight gym clothes and didn't tell people I was pregnant until after my 20 week scan. Not one person had guessed! I also didn't feel movement for a few weeks yet. The 20 week scan was reassuring because I could see baby kicking but couldn't feel a thing!
By 30 weeks I was showing and by 40 weeks I was a whale!
I didn't really show until 34 weeks when my baby turned. I had put on a bit of weight all over but just looked a little chunky . I carried transverse (baby was side to side rather than top to bottom ) so was well hidden. I started feeling movement about 22 weeks.
Do you know where your placenta is? Mine was at the front in my first 2 pregnancies, and both times, it was after 20 weeks before I started feeling any movements.
Re not showing - There was a depressingly large number of acquaintances of mine who were astonished when DS2 was born because they hadn't realised I was pregnant. Several admitted that they'd noticed I was larger, but said they thought I was just getting fatter.