I posted some weeks ago about the idea of using small vibrator for PM as I find it difficult/sore to use my fingers (can't event get a fingertip in - sorry if TMI).
I've also ruled out my OH being involved because I'd like to try keep things like this separate and in any case, him doing it would not make me feel any more relaxed!
Anyway, I have now tried a few times and keep failing miserably. I lie with my knees up and to the side, use oil and the small vibrator and can't seem to even do it that way! I've read countless instructions now and I am still at a loss.
Any tips from anyone? I'm so scared of tearing down there. I've abstained from sex for pretty much 9 months and even during examinations (I have a polyp), I tend to squirm and tense up and therefore find them incredibly painful . I'd like to be prepared as possible for the main event lol!
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PassTheCake82 · 20/12/2016 23:13
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