So I am 20 + 6 weeks today and have just got into work and my boss asked how I was. That sounds like a nice thing to ask but then he went on to say. Was the pregnancy was starting to affect me yet?
Is it just me or men just totally clueless to pregnancy and what it involves?! I politely replied that I felt fine but that pregnancy had affected me from the very beginning as it does for most women.
I didn't mention that I am in fact halfway through and that I have already endured the sickness, the debilitating nausea, my swollen boobs that became so sore I thought they might fall off, the bloating which made it impossible to wear non maternity clothes after about 9 weeks, the stretching and itching across my belly, the joint pain, the crying for no reason, and the fear of birth and that I am going to be a bad Mum when the little one arrives.
The man in question has 3 children of his own but openly declares that he hated them as babies and had no interest in them until they started school. His poor wife. I'm trying not to be annoyed but I really am! He has also ignored my maternity leave letter which I gave him 6 weeks ago, I have had no response whatsoever. Ugh, can't wait until I go on maternity leave.
Anyone else had experiences like this?
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Men just DO NOT get it!
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Stacestoke · 20/10/2016 09:01
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