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In limbo after bleeding :(

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littletike Tue 11-Oct-16 16:43:53

I found out I was pregnant last week during a scan on my ovaries - lovely surprise as we had been trying for a baby but I'd been told I wasn't ovulating - my periods had been really frequent (every other week with spotting in between) for 6 months previous. Last night I had some bleeding so had a scan today and I've been left in limbo... they can't tell me if everything is ok. Either I'm about 5 weeks pregnant and everything is ok but they can't see that because it's so early or I'm 7-8 weeks and everything is not ok. They can see the sac has grown and something in it but it's still too small to tell. So I'm.playing a waiting game for either a scan that can determine things are ok or for something to happen sad

What makes it worse is I'm supposed to be going to Portugal at the end of next week but they've told me there's a chance they will tell me not to fly if my scan next week says the pregnancy isn't healthy.

I don't know what to do. We've saved hard for this holiday and now I don't know whether to pack or not as I literally may not know until the day before and if we don't go what do I tell people?!

Nobody knows about the pregnancy in rl apart from my partner and I just don't know what to do or say.

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