So for context I had a missed miscarriage in January and now I am 25 weeks pregnant.
My colleage told me 3 weeks ago she was pregnant too. We get on really well and it was all very exciting, making plans about being on maternity together. She also had IVF after years of TTC.
Last week she had her 8 week scan to be told that the baby wasn't developing well and they offered her to terminate the pregnancy that week without a second scan. It was all really sad and she has taken the tablet and has passed blood but not everything so now they are making her wait 3 weeks and then have a pregnancy test??
I am miffed. First, this is not at all how they presented the options to me with my M/M, and second I was 11 weeks my sac had no baby and they scanned again the following week just in case".
She had a baby on the 6 week scan and I though 8 week scan was too early to know if things are wrong? at least to have another scan just in case? It is too late now for anything, but people at work are discussing it and its all so sad, specially the whole process being a little strange in my opinion.
Anyway, does anyone know if and how can they tell in one scan at 8 weeks that things are not well? and not offer another one?
I can't stop thinking about it and her, so terribly sad for her and had nightmares last night about my own pregnancy.
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Warning, this is about a friends 8 week scan and miscarriage/abortion
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Kione · 08/09/2016 12:27
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