I'm 12 weeks pregnant and haven't yet told many people, including work. To begin with I just felt so elated with it, couldn't stop grinning and feeling really excited with my DH. But now I just feel like things have taken a down turn. I'm exhausted all the time - have been the whole way through, I know it's not unusual. DH is being great, cooking and doing more round the house etc. and being really supportive. I just feel like our relationship's gone a bit rubbish because of it.
I'm so tired and have zero libido - DH mentioned a few weeks ago he was missing sex so we did it but I just wasn't bothered. I haven't made any moves since and he's told me he doesn't dare initiate anything for fear of rejection. He tells me he's feeling depressed and neglected, not just through lack of sex but because I don't seem to show any interest in him - sometimes I get home from work so exhausted I can hardly speak so I guess I don't pay as much attention to him as normal. He tells me he feels like I got pregnant then lost all interest in sex, as if I didn't want him but wanted a baby.
I feel really stressed with work, and with buying our first house, feel like I am doing loads of the admin with that and being too much of a control freak to hand much of it over to him. I have asked him to do some things to do with admin for the house move but then he says I'm nagging if I ask about it.
I feel anxious and teary and stressed with everything - work, house, our relationship. I can't think straight and don't know what to do!
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ThePartyArtist · 30/08/2016 20:46
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