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Partner leaving while pregnant

(5 Posts)
Txrx Fri 01-Jul-16 17:05:46

I have never posted on here before but really need some support.. I'm a young mum pregnant with 3rd baby all with the same dad and when we are good we are really good but when bad it's horrible I don't have any friends to talk to as my friends are his friends girlfriends so don't like the whole gossip thing.. He just told me that we need to leave it as we have been arguing a lot lately don't want to make him out the be the bad person as we both can be as bad as each other but just feel as if I care a lot more! I get upset about a lot of things don't know if that's just hormones but he seems to get annoyed with that I feel really heartbroken at the fact of us splitting up for good I really thought we would spend the rest of our lives together but don't know where the line is I don't want to beg for him not to leave as I think if he stays just to feel sorry for me that's not a relationship I don't know what to do with myself anymore I feel really sad at the thought of telling my kids he has gone.. Can anyone give me any advice, no horrible comments please I feel Rubbish enough sad

DesignedForLife Fri 01-Jul-16 19:37:05

I'm so sorry you're going through this sad have you got any chance of trying to (calmly) talk it over? Any idea what the source of you fighting a lot recently is?

Donnadoon Fri 01-Jul-16 19:52:34

Your hormones will be wild. Evil things. My dh deserves a medal sometimes for putting up with me. Try to relax. So your kids are you arguing? If so then some space to calm down is needed so you can think clearly.I'm sure you will find your way through you said when you're good you're great. Good luck and the relationships section is a great place for advice pregnant or not x

Donnadoon Fri 01-Jul-16 19:52:53

*do

Txrx Fri 01-Jul-16 21:14:09

It's like he doesn't listen to anything except what he wants to hear Iv even had to get advice from his mum which I'd never usually do but wanted to know if I was just being silly she agrees with me he needs to grow up I don't want to loose him but what else can I do I'm currently in hospital with a bad kidney infection and he's been up for 10 minutes says he's not coming up while we are arguing I'm so hurt that he would do that instead of being there for me like partners should.. My heads such a mess don't know what to do with myself anymore. Sorry for going on just a really bad time for me sad

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