Hi there I am currently nearly 14 weeks pregnant and have had my 12 week scan etc. I feel terrible for even writing this because I have always wanted to be a mum, but the pregnancy was not planned and I have not felt happy so far the entire way through, not even when I saw my baby on the ultrasound. I don't feel anything, and have had crippling hypermesis all along so far. I feel like I am going through the motions just because I should, and doing and saying the right thing even though in my heart I don't feel it. I don't know how much longer I can go on pretending. My partner is so excited and I'm making up excuses to delay him from telling his friends because I don't want people to know yet. Also I still have feelings for my ex, there's a lot of issues there but I have told him I'm pregnant, he's saying to me he doesn't know if he could live if I have a baby with another man. That wouldn't sway my decision as I know it's based on me, but I just don't feel anything. Please help me. Will this pass?
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14 weeks pregnant and not sure I can do this
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user1465877498 · 14/06/2016 05:21
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