Hi there.
I'm 21 weeks pregnant.
I'm 37, married, settled, good job with reasonable maternity leave, there is no reason for me to feel the way I do, but I feel absolutely terrified.
I'm scared that something will go wrong with the pregnancy/birth/when baby is born (everything from miscarriage to foetal abnormalities, physical disability, SENs, ASD, congenital heart complaints, SIDS, childhood cancer and crime plays on my mind). The idea of this baby not living a happy, full and long life breaks me.
I have wanted to be a parent for a decade, I love kids and they tend to like me. I feel like DH and I could offer a child a lot of love and good start in life.
But equally, I'm scared that I have ruined my life - that having a baby is a terrible idea and that I've just sentenced myself to never having a full night's sleep again, that everything I love doing (which is nothing especially un-child friendly) will be closed-off to me. That I'll never get a moment's peace again (I'm quite an introvert and enjoy quiet time).
I am, by nature, a bit anxious (not medically, just by temperament) and I don't feel like I'm depressed, I just feel absolutely terrified.
Is this normal, has anyone else felt like this (and it all be okay), is this just hormones (I felt like this in weeks 6-8, but then felt much more positive until week 20)?
I guess I'm just looking for reassurance that everything will be okay.
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I might be being a bit hormonal -
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ThinkPinkStink · 23/05/2016 15:33
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