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Confused about conception date, Dr was very rude and insensitive:(

(10 Posts)
Honeybee837 Thu 12-May-16 13:11:49

I've recently done a test a few days ago after my period was a week late and it came up positive. U fortunately the last time I had sex was when we and my partner broke up almost 2 months ago 30th April to be exact. I thought I'd had a period on 2nd of April a very light one that lasted a day and a half, after doing the test I've realised that must have been spotting.
Can anyone help with the maths for me because I must have conceived when I was ovulating during 13th to 20th of the month which means it must have been March and im 10weeks pregnant. However ive had no symptoms whatsoever except tiredness and mood swings.

Vixxfacee Thu 12-May-16 13:14:24

I think you can go for an early scan to determine how many weeks you are.
I found out I was pregnant and as didn't have periods and couldn't remember my last period the dr referred me to the epu and I was 7 weeks. Could you make an appointment with the nurse?

Honeybee837 Thu 12-May-16 13:16:43

I've got an appointment booked for next week, it just seems a lifetime to wait, unlikely it was a fake positive but I don't feel pregnant and I've been spotting again since yesterday :/

Vixxfacee Thu 12-May-16 13:19:33

Alot of women spot so don't worry about that (I know that's easy to say) as long as it's not bright red blood and not accompanied by cramps.

Also lots of women don't have any symptoms! Try to stay strong until the scan. Have you got anything planned for the weekend?

Honeybee837 Thu 12-May-16 13:32:19

Trying to keep busy until I know, because I told the doctor Id been bleeding bright red and had awful cramps day before yesterday she told me I was probably misscarrying, (at the time I thought I was only 5-6weeks until I did the maths again). Thanks so much or your support, wish you all the best with your pregnancy. If the doctor was right I feel there's probably a reason, never planned to be a single mum who still lives at home with her parents, still have things I want to achieve before I settle down first, seems selfish but I think the universe has a plan set out for all of us.

KayTee87 Thu 12-May-16 17:41:08

What date was your last period before the episode of spotting?

Honeybee837 Fri 13-May-16 12:16:55

4th of March if I Remeber right

KayTee87 Fri 13-May-16 12:43:26

So you could be 10 weeks. How are you feeling now op? Try to get a scan flowers

Honeybee837 Sat 14-May-16 00:24:23

Sorry what does op mean ? Feeling nauseous, toilet visits far too frequently, bump starting to show, cravings and emotional rollercoaster but as of yet only my best friend knows, planned to get rid of the miracle ive been given, trying to be responsible in the sense im not ready to devote myself to another human being completely sad wish I was in that place now but for me it's not yet right and I'm frightened that if I went through with it Id be doing the wrong decision for both our lives, right decision for me although Its been a difficult one to make

KayTee87 Sat 14-May-16 09:07:21

Op is original poster so you smile

Aw you poor thing sad you're having a horrible time, I'm glad your friend knows so you have some support flowers

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