I had my NT test today at 13 weeks exactly. My baby is developing well, is the right size, has a nice strong quick heartbeat and was wriggling around. My Trisomy 21 risk came back as 1:1800, which the doctor tells me is very low risk. He was really pleased with all the results and told me everything looks good and healthy. I saw loads of different angles in 3D and 2D up on a big TV on the wall, and even got a little wave (well, as much as a 13 W old foetus can wave..!)
I just wanted to share. My baby's father is my ex and he's really, really unhappy about this pregnancy, he can't see anything but the negative, he says his life is ruined, I've taken his future away from him, etc. I'm trying to be excited but he brings that down every chance he gets. So, I sat alone in the waiting room, surrounded by happy looking couples, and I cried. I cried when I saw the baby in 3D up on the screen and there was no-one to be excited about it with. And I cried when I came out and the only person I had to tell was my mum, because my ex doesn't want to know and he's 'forbidden' me from telling any friends that I'm pregnant before he has told his parents and his OW, so I can't talk to anyone else about this.
So...I thought I'd tell you lovely lot, and maybe you can be excited about it for me and help me feel happy about it rather than just miserable and totally alone.
C'mon MN-ers - show me what you're made of :)
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Can I please just share?
Thelittleredhead · 25/04/2016 12:44
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