Just after some advice from other mums or even grandparents that may have been or not in this situation before..
I'm 35 weeks pregnant, baby was unplanned, I was seeing a guy for a few months that I genuinely really liked and I thought he liked me too. We had sex and stupidly didn't use anything one time so I got the morning after pill, which failed. Besides trying to get my head around what I wanted to do and the fact I was having another child this guy I was seeing actually scarpered, blocked me on Facebook, whatsapp etc. He told me he isn't interested and that I should of had a termination. I get that this is how he feels and nothing I say or do will change his mind despite me wishing it could, but there is one thing playing On my mind and that's his family. I am pretty much certain he hasn't told his mum/brother/sister etc or if he has he's told them I'm a mental woman and he isn't the dad. But regardless, should I get in contact with his mother and tell her what's happening? It's her grandson after all. I keep thinking if I was her and I didn't know I had a grandson I would be devastated and so bitter that I had missed out. On the other hand I'm thinking is this just opening a big can of worms? I really am not sure what to do for the best here. Not to mention if she did contact me back and said she didn't want any part of his life that would upset me all over again. I just want to do the right thing for my son.
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Chloeisobelle21 · 22/03/2016 21:57
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