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11 weeks pregnant and miserable :(

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Katy4111 Mon 21-Mar-16 14:26:28

I've been in a relationship with my fella for a year now and we recently found out I'm pregnant again after a mmc last year so obviously was over the moon! But I'm so miserable in the relationship and living 200 miles away from my family because of him. Don't know what to do!!

Everythinggettingbigger Mon 21-Mar-16 14:57:26

not really got anything useful to say but didn't want to read and run!

Have you only been feeling like this since you have found out you are expecting or is not usually a good relationship anyway? If its only since you have been expecting it could be your mood and best to speak to a midwife about it.

Have you spoken to him about living this far away? Would he be open to moving to somewhere even a bit closer?

Katy4111 Mon 21-Mar-16 15:15:50

It's not been great since we moved up here really. All he does is sleep all day and play his computer games! It's like having a child already. And don't even talk to me about his personal hygiene sad I just don't feel attracted to him anymore. I've tried talking to him and he either cries or storms off its like having a teenager in the house! I want to move home I just don't know if I want him to come with me :/

Everythinggettingbigger Mon 21-Mar-16 15:58:15

I don't agree with the posters on other threads that say get out the relationship and dump him etc, but reading what you just said sounds like you are going to have 2 children to look after once baby is here. Maybe speak to him about how your feeling, be brutally honest it might be the shock he needs, if it is and he changes, great! you might not want to move if you feel happier in the relationship, but if he doesn't being honest cant have hurt him and will show his true colours and you can move to be closer to your family and friends?

my DP can be like a child sometimes, I am 31 weeks pg with DS2, DS1 is 5....I honestly feel like I already have 2 children sometimes, he literally argues with our 5yo DS!! He went through a phase of being quite lazy around the house, but once he realised I would leave it was like a shock to the system for him!

Katy4111 Mon 21-Mar-16 20:49:45

Hope you're right!! Don't know how much longer I can cope with it!!
Just always seem to be snapping at him because he's getting on my nerves. All I can do really is stick it out.. Maybe it's hormones kicking in and just stress in general I don't know! Thank you though

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