Hello
I'm 43 years old and pregnant. The circumstances are highly unusual as they involve mutual masturbation. Which means he never penetrated me. Ever. I rubbed my hand w his semen while he was cumming on my face. Odd I know. He and I have never had intercourse. I have not had intercourse in two years.
Here's the problem: I'm 43, I can financially and emotionally care for a child. I've always wanted a child but it hasn't been a primary focus of my life.
He does not want a child. He has a very public job where a child out of wedlock would cause a lot of angst.
I don't want to cause him angst.
I also do not want an abortion. I had one over 20 years ago and I've regretted it since.
How do I tell him? Or should I? He will explode upon the news.
I want to keep this baby. Help!
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Pregnant: 43 yo and can't tell
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Hollyhillcourt · 29/01/2016 05:02
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