I am 22 at the end of this month and I'm a studnet nurse 1st year, I have been in and out of A&E with upper abdo pains this week , where I found out I was pregnant yesterday. The Dr is sure that the pain isnt related to my pregnancy but I still have no answers to anything yet.
Anyway, I have PCOS and was almost sure I wouldn't have kids, so me and my partner kind of looked at it this way.....I'm young, the most fertile I will ever be, if it happens it happens if it doesn't at least we can say we tried kind of attituide....
Except now I'm in shock, I think my pain problems arn't helping as there overshadowing my judgments, but I am terrorfied! I do want children, but now that I'm pregnant I'm so scared of making the wrong decison, I have no home of my own, I'm a student, I'd have to leave uni! what if I cant cope, I like my own time! .... the only thing keeping me together right now is that I keep telling myself... I want kids, I love my finace, and I want to spend my life with him.... why not now !
My mum doesnt think im ready and my partner is scared more than me because of our situation.. no home, noT much income ....
Please somebody, any advice??? I do want children and I'm so happy because I thought i'd never have them but am I ready ? My mum didnt cope well and I was adopted my siblings were also spread about... im scared of ruining my life.. or regreting a decision that I might make.
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emilynielson94 · 01/01/2016 12:23
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