I found out recently my baby is a girl. I'd had an equal longing for a girl and a boy, and thought I'd be delighted. I mostly am, but I'm worrying as well. I'm not girly myself at all - what if she is and we're not as close? I was never good at girl-group friendships but I'll have to help her with them! I have a difficult relationship with my own mother, so I'm terrified of repeating history. I'm scared because she's going to face all the sexism of being a girl, and I've just lost my job/career so I'm scared I'm not even going to be a good role model for her.
I know I'm being really silly. But can anyone offer me a bit of reassurance or tell me happy stories of their relationship with their daughter? Also are there any good books on being a good (not smothery!) mother of a daughter?
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Having a girl - unexpectedly scared!
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InstantFlowers · 16/12/2015 12:16
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