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Katieemilyxo Sun 01-Nov-15 12:33:01

I'm 17 and had my first baby three months ago I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend once and now I'm getting the same symptoms I had before with my son the lower back pain tiredness feeling dizzy and sick i'dk if it's pms I'm so worried I don't know what I'll do if I'm pregnant again sad

QforCucumber Sun 01-Nov-15 12:39:14

When is your period due?
First thing you need to do is take a test and find out if you actually are pregnant, then you can think about what's next.

Katieemilyxo Sun 01-Nov-15 12:51:47

I fell pregnant around the exact same time last year with my son my last period was the same with my last 16th of October and my cycle is 25 days getting everything the same sad

goodnightdarthvader1 Sun 01-Nov-15 13:32:29

Why did you have unprotected sex???

Take a test.

Madelinehatter Sun 01-Nov-15 13:35:14

Take a test. Then if it's negative find some good contraception and start using it every time you have sex. Better still get the implant.

Katieemilyxo Sun 01-Nov-15 14:05:15

I'dk what's the heat of the moment I feel so stupidsad I made a apoitment for the pill

Katieemilyxo Sun 01-Nov-15 14:07:41

Was-

FattyNinjaOwl Sun 01-Nov-15 14:07:41

You need to take a test. You won't know unless you do.

Katieemilyxo Sun 01-Nov-15 14:08:35

I don't think I can yet as it's to soon soon as I get closer to my period I will i'dk what I'm going to do if I am againsad

PotteringAlong Sun 01-Nov-15 14:09:20

Stop having unprotected sex is what you need to do!

Katieemilyxo Sun 01-Nov-15 14:11:31

I know we had protected the whole time apart from the once after I had my son sad

FattyNinjaOwl Sun 01-Nov-15 14:12:52

Well if you are you have three options. Abortion, adoption or keep the child.
If not then stop having unprotected sex.
But until you do a test and get on the pill then get some condoms. Why aren't you on the pill already? Contraception should have been discussed at your six week check.

Katieemilyxo Sun 01-Nov-15 14:16:43

Because I'm a idiot and I couldn't go through abortionsad

FattyNinjaOwl Sun 01-Nov-15 14:21:08

That's fine. But if you really couldn't face an abortion you need to use contraception.
I'm not saying this because of your age or anything, just because its true. I'm 24 and I have 3 DCs. I was 17 when I had my first. He's now 7. The other two are 22 months and 3 months. So I know what it's like to be a young mum and what it's like having a close age gap.

goodnightdarthvader1 Sun 01-Nov-15 14:24:28

The whole time? Are you saying you had protected sex while you were pregnant?

Katieemilyxo Sun 01-Nov-15 14:25:21

No I mean after I had my son

goodnightdarthvader1 Sun 01-Nov-15 16:29:35

Was your son the result of unprotected sex as well?

Katieemilyxo Sun 01-Nov-15 17:01:55

Yes :/

FattyNinjaOwl Sun 01-Nov-15 17:03:34

Was your son the result of unprotected sex as well?
grin that's usually how it happens!

I think what goodnight means is
Was your DS planned?

chocfireguard Sun 01-Nov-15 17:29:45

The title of your thread is 'scared'. I think that people are being quite judgemental and are forgetting how you must already be feeling without any additional lectures. You clearly know very well what the consequences of unprotected sex are. My advice would be to take ownership of the situation, do a test when your dates suit, and then have a conversation with your boyfriend. You will need to decide if you are able to give a baby a loving, nurturing home, and how you will manage practically and financially.

goodnightdarthvader1 Sun 01-Nov-15 18:59:47

I'm sure she is scared, but some personal responsibility is required. Having had 1 unplanned baby (I'm guessing from her answer), she's now in a position to have another. There comes a point when you throw up your hands and say "Really?"

What does the OP want us to do, other than work some magic and make her and her boyfriend go back in time and not be so silly?

Op, your options are
1. Do a test when you can
2. If you're pregnant, abort, adopt or keep
3. Buy some fecking condoms and use them. Every time.

Katieemilyxo Sun 01-Nov-15 20:16:34

We did use them it's only the once we didn't In the heat of the moment I was such a idiot sad going to try get the pill tommorow asap

CityMole Sun 01-Nov-15 20:32:08

You're going to get the pill tomorrow Asap? Possibly too late for that pet, unless you mean emergency contraception, and you're within 72 hours of having sex. If your last period was 16th, then you would have been most fertile Friday, yesterday and today- are you saying you feel pregnancy symptoms within a day of conception, because that is really strange. When was this unprotected sex? Try to stay calm if you can. If it was this weekend then there is always the chance that emergency contraception can help you. Do you have a friend or family member who can help you?

CityMole Sun 01-Nov-15 20:34:50

Just read that you have a slightly short cycle- so your fertile period may have been midweek. The same applies however. It would be shockingly poor luck if your one occasion of having unprotected sex happened to be be right when you were ovulating.

Katieemilyxo Sun 01-Nov-15 21:35:35

It was just realised we had sex the same day same date I conceived my son last flipping year

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