I'm 17 weeks pregnant and this is amazing news for me and my husband after I had a cancer scare earlier this year. It hasn't been good news for our best friends who have been trying to get pregnant for the last two years and now are trying IVF. I tried to tell them tactfully and knew that it would be a very sad time for them - we both cried lots - and I promised that I would give them whatever space they needed or that they could be as involved as they wanted to be,the ball was in their court as we could understand how difficult it would be. At the time she said that they wanted to be as involved as possible and wanted to support us.
I haven't seen her since I told her :( she now doesn't respond to my texts. I am trying to give her space but had been texting her (so she didn't think I'd forgotten her) but do I just let her phase me out? I miss my best friend. I miss having someone to laugh with or just talk nonsense with. Do you think that this is what she wants and so I should let her go until she's ready to accept the pregnancy or she herself gets pregnant? I care about her so want to do the right thing but I don't know if that's leaving her or keeping trying.
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Autumnprincess · 24/10/2015 20:51
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