I am really struggling to deal with the aftermath of a medical management termination after a lethal diagnosis at the 12 week scan.
I had the procedure last week at 13 weeks and have worries and questions about that - i have tried searching google and mumsnet but cant find answers to my questions about whats happening to me physically.
I also wondered if there was a section on mumsnet anywhere that acts as a support group for tfmr, it wasnt a miscarriage so i dont know if i can post on those threads
so if anyone can point me to a good thread that would be great i could really use some 'company'
Of course you can post on the miscarriage threads. A loss is a loss no matter how it came about. The ladies on those threads will be very understanding I am certain.
Alternatively if there are specific questions you would like to ask you could start a thread over in miscarriage and pregnancy loss which you can find under the topic 'body and soul' I'm sure there will be loads of women with similar experiences to share or even just to offer a hand to hold.
I'm so sorry you have had to go through this. Do you have any support in real life? X
Have been thinking of you. You absolutely can post on the mc threads... There are a couple of regular posters Kittyteal ( or something like that) and PopandCry who both had TFMR, I think kitty was at 22 weeks.
It's a loss and you need support so please try the mc threads
i have thought about you all on feb bus and im so glad, for you especially after your sad history, that everything is going okay! I am not brave enough to look at the board but i hope i was the last of the sad news xxx
Don't look on the board. Please don't even open the ante-natal threads full stop.
It will torture you and you don't need that. The Feb bus is behind you. You have to focus on you and your DH. To grieve and recover. To collect your thoughts. You are the most important thing right now. Don't worry about anyone else.
I had my 3rd due date on Friday. I lit 3 candles (one of each of my lost babies) and I cried. Sobbed actually. Even though I'm pregnant now, those 3 babies are part of me.
And yours always will be too. You were faced with an awful heartbreaking horrendous decision.
Don't give up on the mc threads. My darkest hours were spent on those threads and they got me through it. They will for you too. If you are desperate and can't find the "right" thread - come and see us on the recurrent mc thread. We are always talking and supporting each other. It's like Blackpool - never goes quiet and quite frankly 1 loss or 7 ( we've had a couple of them) we couldn't give a shit. A loss is a loss
twins you have to register with arc before you can read the forums... yesterday i lost it and i needed to make contact with someone, anyone, asap so i think eventually when arc get back to me i will be able to get support there but im glad i found a decent mn support group too.