I'm 26 weeks pg and was visiting my family a couple of weeks ago (they live in England, I'm in Scotland) and we started talking about plans for the birth, i.e. that my parents would get a phone call when labour starts and jump in the car to travel up. But the subject of where they would stay came up and I don't know what to do....on one hand, it'd be nice having them in our house so they could feed/change my guineapigs, help with cooking/cleaning, take the baby for an hour or two if I need to rest etc, but on the other hand, I'm worried I'd get annoyed and feel a bit stifled if they were there 24/7. My DH will be taking 3 weeks pat leave and my in-laws only live a 2min drive away (10mins on foot), so we're thinking it might be best if my folks stayed with my in-laws (they all get on like a house on fire anyway). Don't want to risk offending my parents as they'd have totally good intentions, but they can be a bit full-on at times (e.g. I'd fully expect them to get up during the night when the baby cries, just to check everything's OK, plus my DF can get a bit weird about breastfeeding so I'd need to go into a different room to wherever he was). Just wondering what everyone else has done, if you have parents from 'out of town'?
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Post-birth....did your parents 'live' with you?
cazzabazz · 03/08/2015 11:10
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