Hey girls, so basically I've been seeing a guy and we had sex and the condom split and I'm not on the pill, I was away so I couldn't get the morning after pill and now my period is late. I'm getting slightly worried! Im 24 and work as a performer I don't think I'm ready for kids at the moment but then Ive never wanted to be an older mum but a younger one like my mum is, I live with my mum. When I told the guy he said he would be there for me and man up but he has gone quiet on me past couple days so feeling down about the whole situation. Now don't judge me but when I was 19 I had an abortion which I hated it was a mutual descion with me and my ex boyfriend but I dont Want to go through it again, the other thing Is we had sex during my ovulation period I'm really scared to do a test. Not sure what to do right now!!!! I just feel awful now he's gone quiet on me, when I told him I was pregnant all he said was oh and what shall we do, he was very casual about it.
Hey Honey - I'd do a test ASAP as if it was me the not knowing would be driving me mad. He's probably just a bit scared but once you know for certain you can chat to him about it more and talk things thru - if it's positive he might totally step up and be happy, he'll be feeling anxious too. I hope things work out for you x