Hi, I'm new to this as I have only just found out I'm pregnant this morning! I'm in a bit of shock as I'm on the pill (rigevidon) and it was not planned at all, I've been getting some weird symptoms lately, including really sore boobs, and was about 2 days late so decided to take a test just to see.
I'm not sure how to feel yet, although I had a feeling I might be, seeing the positive test has freaked me out a bit! I don't understand how I got pregnant as I'm really good at taking the pill everyday.
The biggest thing I'm worried about is telling my partner, we are both 35 and have been together for nearly 5 years, we live together and have recently started talking about maybe trying for kids next year. However we have just started planning to go travelling for a few months at the beginning of next year, one last adventure before we totally settle down.
He's been so excited planning the trip, he's been wanting to do more travelling for years and it's all he talks about at the moment. I'm so worried about telling him and smashing his dreams, I would hate for him to feel trapped and think that I've done this on purpose so we can't go.
Has anyone else got pregnant on the pill? And how did you tell your partner? Any advice would be great, thanks ladies!
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How should I tell my partner?
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tazo15 · 21/07/2015 11:12
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