This is my very first posting on here and I have been looking at all the topics titles with wide eyes!
I am 34 and have been having lots of talks with my OH about whether we should try for a baby or not. I simply just don't know which way to go. OH is trying to be helpful by saying that it is up to me but I'm finding the responsibility to choose for the two of us a little overwhelming and I'm not entirely sure that it is fair to place the decision on me! He has said that he would be happy with a child and with us bringing one up but would be just as happy with it being just the two of us. His reasoning for it ultimately being my decision would be that it would have a greater impact on me as I would be the one that would carry it and give birth to it. His job would give him 6 months paternity leave if needed and he is willing to help in all ways.
Now that I am facing the possibility of having a baby I am finding the prospect of being pregnant quite scary - more so than the actual giving birth part if I'm honest! I am worried about what will happen to my job (I'm self employed and it has taken me a long time to build up my client base - and although I would be able to keep some I would end up losing all of those involving me traveling to) and I worry about if my relationship with OH would suffer.
But then again, it's a pretty amazing thing to bring a life into the world, and then to be able to nurture it and guide it and help it to grow into a wonderful person.
But oh gosh - it's all very grown up!
Did any of you suffer from indecision, or did you 'just know'?
I feel a bit like a rabbit caught in the headlights at the moment!
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bridieb · 09/06/2015 19:44
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