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We're posifrickintive! Another posifrickintivity thread for pregnancy after miscarriage #3(991 Posts)
Another thread for the lovely ladies who are pregnant after miscarriage
Is anyone in charge of the stats now Silver has left the thread? I'm happy to post if that's ok with everyone? Is there anyone who'd like to be added or who needs EDD changing etc?
thesmallbear if you could do stats that would be lovely - it's always nice to have them near the top of the thread for easy reference!
Yay new thread! I'm back in work after 2 weeks annual leave and finding it hard to get going today! Not helping that SPD has got me in its grip. Physio appt tomorrow am though - really hope they can suggest some helpful stuff!
29+2 today! How did that happen? Huge best wishes to happy I think it was who had a scan this am?
HELLO! Ok I have an awkward child apparently! They couldn't measure the head properly so I have to go back next week. It definitely has a head though which is reassuring. Also wriggly but wriggly in an awkward way.
My cervix looks fine and closed and long considering past procedures so a very positive scan!
Couldn't find out the sex because they kept their legs closed, but the sonographer reckons girl. She said she would have another look next week.
Consultant was in no way concerned and told me to carry on as normal
Thanks for the new thread and positive vibes!
Great news happy!
Bonus that you get to see baby again next week.
Ok, I will update the stats. Shall I do it a bit later, so everyone has a chance to get home from work, read this and then let me know if they want to add/update anything. I'm off work today as I've had a long weekend in Scotland. I got home last night and am having a rest today.
happy - glad everything went well. I guess it's a bit of a pain that they couldn't do everything they needed to do, but at least you get to see your baby again next week
Hello! Sorry I have been absent for sooooo long but still in denial..... I'm now 17 weeks and I'm due on the 27th August ( even though I have told my oby/gyn that I refuse to give birth until september) I have another scan tomorrow morning.I'm wondering how much longer I can get away with before people notice I am pregnant, I do look like I have been eating a lot of pies!
Congratulations to everyone who have had positive scans.
Excellent news Happy even if you have to back you know all is well.
I went to yoga which was lovely, really enjoyed however my private scan was cancelled as the sonographer was sick and now for some unknown reason I have went massively negative thinking something is wrong with the baby. Can't seem to shake it but I am finding it difficult to believe I am going to get good news when we rebook it...I think the lack of symptoms is not helping and I am now telling myself that my bump us just fat! Plus I seem to have a dull throbbing pain every so often -argh anyone got any ideas to stop me driving myself crazy??
Ooh, shiny new thread!
My 20 week scan has been booked for 2nd May. Which is a Saturday. And so I don't quite know what to do with DD. DH thinks it'll be fine to take her along but I don't want to be told off by the sonographer!
Thanks for the new thread treacle
Ace news small
Hi commander My hospital specifies 1 adult and 'quiet' children under 16 are welcome in the room. How old is your DD, can she be bribed with promise of a treat if she behaves in the dark room?
You can check with your Antenatal clinic, you won't be the first! If not is there a friend who can have DD for an hour?
I just looked into NCT classes as now i have had my 20 week scan it seems that I am actually going to have to have this baby. It is happening and there is no denying it any longer.
My baby is a 3cm femur bone. Seeing that on my notes just made my heart melt! It is so big yet also so teeny teeny tiny if that makes sense.
Cava I feel fat not pregnant too, and I get these pains if I sneeze or move too quickly. It must be hard if you have psyched yourself up for a scan for it to then be cancelled! but people get sick and I bet you prefer it to be cancel then being sneezed on and getting sick yourself? Positive vibes your way. How many weeks are you now?
Yes happy definitely don't want to be around sick people and I wasn't bothered about them cancelling, it is just the panic has set in now. My DH has rebooked it for tomorrow night, as I was humming and hawing about whether to not bother now as I didn't want it to be over ( I'm crazy I tell you ) anyway he has said we are going and I know that's the best thing. I am 16 weeks now.
I keep looking at the people who have had babies on this thread with hope as they seem to have remained fairly sane so hopefully I'll be the same
She'll be 3 that month and she's normally very well behaved (if she's unsure about something she just goes quiet). DH is all for bringing her along but I think I'm going to put my foot down and say she has a morning with MIL or her best friend's mum, who has very kindly offered to have her.
Afternoon team, just wanted to drop in and say hi, as I've been awol from MN for a few months.
In case you don't know/remember me:
MC1 @ 7.5w Feb 2014
MC2 @ 10ish Aug 2014
Now 23 weeks (wheeeee!) on attempt #3
First 12w were tough, emotionally, as I was terrified something would go wrong. Then a very wobbly time as symptoms started to taper off but I still couldn't feel anything nor did I really look preg. But now I'm sporting a proper baby bump and can feel BabyCharlie moving several times every day. Doesn't stop me for being scared at least once a day! But 12w and 20w scans showed all going well, so now trying to stay posifrickintive.
Glad some others have had good scans, hope you're all getting through the fear!
Hi charlie! So good to have you back and really delighted things are progressing well xxx
To be fair commander it might be a bit dull for her. It is easy for you and DH to coo at the blurry grey image but for a 3yo not so much I guess. Especially if you are going to be anxious (I was) I also started crying with relief as soon as I saw the baby move which might be hard for your DD to understand. A play date or a treat day with your MIL might be better if you have the option xxx
Congratulations Charlie Do you want adding to the stats? If so can I have your EDD please.
Yeah I'd leave dd with your MIL if you can, commander. She would probably find it boring and if there's a wait, or you are sent out for a walk to move baby for example, it might be tricky to keep her entertained. I also think of the time I was going to be scanned after I knew I had mc and there were kids in the waiting room and it was v difficult (even though we have a dd). I was very emotional and stressed at the 20 week scan - probably my negative mind set after mc and the fear of finding ds markers or worse - so for us, taking dd to such an appointment would've been the last resort.
I agree commander, my hospital only let you in with one adult.
My 20 week scan isn't til the 11th May. Seems ages!!!
Is anyone drinking coke?
I've been really good avoiding caffeine drinks as I eat a lot of chocolate in one go when I fancy it.
I really fancy coke though so have bought two of those tiny little cans to drink. Now I'm scared to drink them :p
Sorry Charlie, I can see you are already on the stats with an EDD of 26/07/15. Right I will update the stats now.
Thank you for the shiny new thread! And Charlie good to see you again. Those waiting for bumps I know exactly what you mean - suddenly at about 20wks I went from looking a bit day to definitely pregnant, it seems to almost happen overnight!
Here are the stats
Anyone heard from Missmakesstuff, as today is her due date!
Missmakesstuff: 1 mc, edd 23 March 2015
Ilovechops, 1MC,1MMC,1DD, EDD 24 March 2015
Littlemissy12345: 1DD, 2mc, EDD 25 March 2015
FloreneceandZebede: 1 ds (2y9mths) 1 mmc Feb 14, EDD 25 March 2015
Suzybean: 38, 1 DS age 5, mmc Feb 13, mc March 14. EDD 12th April 2015
Psmith: 1 MP, 1 MC, EDD April 23rd 2015
OneDayLikeThis2013: 27, no DCs, MMC June 2014, EDD 26 April 2015
Haily111: dc3, mc May, EDD 5 May 2015
Mslad: 33, no dc, mmc June 2014, edd 18 May 2015
ToriB34: 34, no DC, mmc in July, EDD 29th May 2015
Longestlurkerever: 1dd, 2mc, 1mmc, EDD 30 May 2015
SunbathingCat: 35, no DCs, mmc in May, EDD 13 June 2015
WrappedInABlankie: 1 DS, ectopic 3/14, EDD 22 June 2015
Phryn: Age 32, no DC, mc in Aug 14, EDD 6th June 2015
Thesmallbear: 33, 1 MMC in June 2014, EDD 2nd July 2015
Boozle: 1NMC, 2MMC, 1DD, EDD: 4th July 2015
sarahlou20: 35, no DC, 1 MMC, EDD 9th July 2015
ThePurplegiraffe: 36, 1dd, 1 mc in Sep, EDD 11th July
Ibelieveinpink: 31, mc, mc, dd1, edd 12 July 2015
Ignominious: DD, MMC in August, EDD 12th July 2015
Broodylicious: 36, 1 dd, 1 mc at 12 weeks on feb 27, EDD 20 July 2015
Charlieis30: ttc #1 MC Feb 14 7.5w, MC Aug 14 9w (trisomy), EDD 26 Jul 15
Littlelady33: ttc #1, mmc March 13 and 14, EDD 25th July 2015
Happygojo: 28, no DC, MMC September 2014 (blighted ovum), EDD 10th August 2015
Daisysunshine: 23, no dc, TTC 14 months, 1mc sept '14, EDD 10th August 2015
enviousllama: 33, 1DS (2y 5m), 1MMC (Nov '14), EDD 4th Sept 2015
CommanderShepard: 32, 1 DD via EMCS, 1 MC December 2014 (5 wks), EDD 20th September 2014
Treaclepie19: 24, 1 mc in May 2014 at 8+4, EDD 20th September 2015
worriedmum100: 39, 1 DS (nearly 4). 2 MCs around 6 w (June 2010 and Feb 2014), 1 MMC (July 2014 at 9 w). Also have endometriosis & Ashermans Syndrome. EDD 24 September
Jessw25 Baby Oliver born 9 July 2013, 5lb 11oz
BobaFetaCheese Baby Alexander born 30 July 2013, 7lb 4oz
Andadietcoke twin girls born 29 August 2013, Charlotte 5lb 5oz & Sophie 7lb 13oz
Pentagon baby Elsie born 23 October 2013, 7lb 5oz
Bodicea baby James born 3 November 2013, 8lb
Ibelieveinpink baby Imogen born 14 November 2013, 7lb 4oz
BumpKitty baby Matilda born 18 Nov 2013, 8lb 2oz
Luckysocks13 baby Charlotte born 24 Nov 2013, 8lb
Jmf294 baby Alexander James born 25 Nov 2013, 7lb 4oz
Shellsocks baby Noah Stephen born 27 Nov 2013, 9lb 3.5oz
Gardenworm baby Wolfie born 1 December 2013
Bootyluscious baby Sofia born 17 December 2013, 6lb 2oz
ChocolateTeabag: baby Joss born 18 December 2013, 7lb 7oz
Blackholes: Baby girl born 23 December 2013
WhatwillSantabring: Baby boy born 6 January 2014, 8lbs 7oz
pumpkinsweetie: Baby girl born 7 January 2014, 6lb 4 oz
Christinedaae - Baby girl Sawyer born 6th Feb 2014, 9lb11.5oz
MissMedusa: Baby Rhydian Thursday 27 Feb 2014, 1080g
TotalShock - Baby James born 25 February 2014, 8lb 1oz
Swangirl: Baby boy, 4 March 2014
Pixielady83: Baby girl, 9 March 2014
GuffSmuggler: Baby boy, 3 March 2014
Fod: Baby Girl, 7 April 2014, 10lb 3
TeaAndANatter: Baby Henry born 18 April 2014, 7lb 15oz
Kjh5: Baby Logan born 19 April 2014, 3.3kg
CbeebiesIsMyLife: Baby boy born 2 May 2014
StarsInTheNightSky: baby Jasper, born early May 2014, 8lbs3
Tomkat: Baby Lolly born 16 May 2014
Bakingtins: Baby Faith born 23 May 2014, 5lb 3oz
Penguinita: Baby Elanor born 27th May 2014, 6lb 1oz
Emki: Baby Michael born 29th May 2014, 9lb 10oz
Pgchimp: Baby boy born 16th June 2014
Fishcake77: Baby boy Jack born 26th June 2014, 7lbs 14oz
Nerdy bird: baby girl born 1st July 2014
Keepingthefaith: baby girl born 2nd August 2014 10 weeks early 2.5lbs
MrsGiraffe12: baby girl born 1 Sept 2014
Alb1: baby boy born 14 September 2014
fedupofrainydays: baby boy born 16 September 2014
Squizita: baby girl born 21 September 2014
HopefulHamster: baby Serena Lorelai, born 1 October 2014, 7lb3
Londonjen: Baby Eleanor born 6th October 2014
CorporeSarnie: baby boy born 26 October 2014
Cakebaker35: Baby William born prematurely at 27 weeks, 21st October - 29th October 2014, may he rest in peace
cheesecurry86: Baby Lewis James, born 6 am, 9lb 2, 16th November 2014
Gwlondon: baby Alexandra, born 2.40 kilos, 20th November 2014
Cuppachaplz: baby Percy born 6 December 2014, 5lb 4oz
Liesal: baby Alexander William, born 14 December 2014, 7lb 3oz
QuietTiger: baby girl born 18 December 2014
Seasides: baby Freya born 20 December 2014
TeaRex: baby boy born 20 December 2014, 7 lb 6 oz
Amicablemoomin: baby girl just before Christmas 2014
CallingAllEngels: baby boy born 9 January 2015, 7lb 15 oz
GailLondon: baby Oscar born 2 February 2015, 9lb 7 oz
Babytinks11: Baby Lacey-Rae born 13 February 2015, 7lb 15 oz
Blankfornames: baby Bobby born 21 February 2015, 8lbs 7 oz
Silverine: baby Patrick born 2 March 2015, 3.78 kg (8 lb 5 oz)
Tannyloo: baby Bertie born 7 March 2015, 8lb 15.5oz
HollyBen: Baby boy Brodie 7 March 2015
Thank you for the stats
Should we put them in a spreadsheet at some point? Or is that unnecessary hassle? :p
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