I have worked out I am probably around 8 weeks pg, I have an appointment with docs next Thurs to start antenatal care.
I work as a teaching assistant in a school so start back next Monday. I have told all of my family on Christmas day as I was sure I would probably need to tell others at some point and I wanted family to be first to know. I am now free to tell whoever needs to know at whatever point is necessary.
I have already decided to tell the teacher that I work alongside, as I have had pretty awful nausea and vomitted occasionally over the past week or so and I get the feeling its only going to get worse. Also I work quite closely with a child who has been violent to adults in the past (never aimed at me but I would be kicking myself if he did get violent and I hadn't spoken up sooner.)
As I have an appointment the first week back at school I am wondering whether to tell the finance manager and headteacher (they process requests for time off) and request that they don't tell anyone else until after 12 week scan. That way I would be able to go to appointments without having to lie to them. Just not sure I like the idea of them knowing as I would be worried word would spread even though I had asked it to be kept secret.
Has anyone else had this problem?
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When to tell work?
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Cazilou · 30/12/2014 22:41
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