My partner and I spilt up 2-3 weeks ago, after I decided I wasn't really happy being in the relationship anymore. We were together for nearly 2 and a half years and already have a 15 month old together.
Although we have split up, we had been getting on very well and had been amicable for the sake of our son.
A few days before we spilt up we had unprotected sex, and 2 days ago I found out I was pregnant. I told my exp and we were both very shocked as it was unplanned. At first he was not sure if he wanted the baby, but then said he did want it and even though we are not together we will get through it.
That same day we agreed to have the baby he went to see his mother to tell her the news, and now he's done a complete 360 and says he does not want the baby, because we are not together and he cannot afford it, and he wants a DNA test as he believes the baby is not his and refuses to be involved with the baby until it's proven the baby is his.
I feel so hurt and shocked by his admissions, I don't know what to do...
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Happiness short lived...now shocked and hurt
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BlueDiamond89 · 29/12/2014 12:04
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